It's largely seen that it's the group doing it. I know many are still raiding in a fair way, and I understand them. There is a "war" going on. But, there are also those who are constantly raiding. And that should be discouraged. I would say that, if you want to gain this right back, you need to get those people to stop with the constant raids. Also, Cerce just said something that explains what I see the problem as being:
(04-28-2012, 20:43)Cerce Wrote: Try to remember that this server is not comprised of members, but of people. People with lives, friends, and feelings. If you want to do something that could very well cause someone to become angry beyond the game, ask them for permission first - I would have been fine with many of the things people have done to me if they just asked me first.
That's what I think they were doing, and this is where the problem lies. I think it's generally known that if you are causing someone actual anger (like in my case, yelling until I started going numb), then you are playing this game wrong
EDIT: Also, some were on the brink of leaving the server. Once again, if that's what you're trying to do, you are playing the game wrong