As of last night I started to get a grey screen of death for my minecraft while only playing online. I was not worried about it because it would only sometimes happen after I would die. However today I have been trying to get on kiwike but right away I get a grey screen. I then attempted to fix the problem with the power of google and tryed many solutions. However , none of them seemed to work for me

. So i had the idea it could be the server just being mean so I cheated on kiwike for a short time and on other servers there was no crashing. Then I tryed my friends account to if it would let me on which it did without crashing. So anyone have a answer to the server just not showing me any love towards my account

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(Note: I did mess around with video settings to see if it would some how fix the problem)